A couple of weeks back, I talked about the secret to having it all; how we, as women, can have it all at work and in our personal lives. The response to this piece was overwhelming. People reached out to tell us about what having it all meant to them and where their personal journeys had taken them. We then took your feedback and combined it with the latest research to identify ways employers can create a culture of empowerment, and you responded to this too.
All this got me thinking about how each of us defines our “all” and one of the most powerful lessons I learned from Hurricane Harvey. In the span of 12 hours, I lost my house, my business, and three cars. It forced me to think quickly about what’s most important, an exercise I think everyone should try.
Ask yourself: “What would I take and what would I leave
behind? What do I have right now that I know I could live without?”
While we were getting our home set up again after Harvey, my family and I stayed in an apartment. We didn’t have all the things we had accumulated over the years, and we would often reach for something only to realize we no longer had it.
One day, my daughter, Ally, and I were making a pizza when she declared that our pizza cutter was missing.
“I know where it is,” she slyly grinned.
“Where?” I asked.
“It’s in the Gulf of Mexico,” she laughed.
While I don’t like the idea of contributing to pollution and waste, Ally had a point. This thing that we had accumulated, that we felt we needed, was gone, but we were ok without it. We went through this process repeatedly with different items for months. However, as cathartic and crazy as it was, I was happier with simplified life after Harvey.
Having it all at work, or anywhere else for that matter, doesn’t mean we have to have more. It just means we meet our needs and let go of the excess things that aren’t really necessary...
These are just a few of the ways you can have it all at work with less. What have you cut, dropped, or simplified at work that ultimately contributed to your success or happiness?